Many people spend their life, at the mercy of circumstances. Living at the mercy of what happened to them. Living at the mercy of other people. Not living in the present, because they are stuck in the prison of past.
If you want to live a GREAT life than don’t allow yourself to be controlled by any of these things.
1. YOUR PAST.
Don’t allow your PAST to control your PRESENT or your FUTURE life. Whatever happens, you must let it go. Leave the pain of your past behind so it cannot ruin your future. Leave the darkness of your past behind so it cannot block the light of your bright future. Your past is gone whatever happens, whether unjust, cruel, harsh, whatever the case reliving the events will never do you any good. If someone did you wrong the ONLY WAY you can win, is if you let go and move on. If you live in hate, they win. If you live in the victim story, they win. If you want to win, you must focus on building your future and start right now. Release that weight from your back so you can be free. Don’t allow event from the past, which is now gone, to ruin this moment, which is perfect… this moment which is now to enjoy, which is ready for you to LIVE FULLY.
2. OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINION
Don’t allow other people’s opinions and judgments to control the direction of your life! The need to feet in and feel wanted can cause you to travel down paths you don’t want to travel. People pleasing is a curse that should be avoided at all cost. Before do anything ask yourself: Am I doing this because I want to do it, or because of my fear of judgment from others if I don’t. You are born unique for a reason, you are born to stand out, to be appreciated and loved for WHO YOU ARE. Don’t dim your light so you fit into the dull background of other people’s lives. Shine bright as you are those who really care for you will see that light and shine with you.
3. LIMITED BELIEFS
Don’t allow your life to be controlled by your own limited beliefs. Now, a warning with this one. These beliefs may be conscious, but more than likely they are unconscious. They may be unconscious limitations that have been conditioned in you from a young age and throughout your entire life, by listening to those around you who never reached for their own dream. Notice your limited beliefs and tell them to shut-up. There is nothing you cannot do, nothing you cannot have and NO ONE you cannot become if you believe in yourself! If you believe anything is possible, guess what? Anything is POSSIBLE! When you change your belief from limited to unlimited your potential is unlimited. Imagine what you could achieve if you lived your life as though ANYTHING is possible. As though MIRACLES are a standard requirement for every day. As the saying goes: “When there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm” when you have nothing inside holding you back, there is nothing outside that can hold you back either. Your entire life will change the very instant you decide to change your mindset. The instant you decide to see everything as a gift. When you decide to see every circumstance and challenge as a blessing rather than a curse, the very instant you become conscious to the fact that everything is as it should be and know that fighting what IS, is insane.
A touchy subject. But if you are always needing another to be happy, to feel complete then you are always one moment away from a breakdown if that person leaves you or unhappiness, if the relationship you are in is not going well. I am not suggesting to avoid relationships. There is no force on this earth greater than LOVE and connection. I am talking about those who cannot live if they aren’t in a relationship. Those who will be just about anyone, including all the wrong ones, just to avoid spending a moment being single. What I AM saying is to develop enough mental strength that you get to the point where you don’t need others to make you happy. You are just as happy being alone as you are in a relationship.
This is what to control the majority of human on the planet. Can you guess what it is? MONEY! This doesn’t mean you should not want abundance. It doesn’t mean money is evil. You know as well as I do what great things you can do and how many people you can help with money. What this means is, do not allow your decisions to be controlled by money. If you are choosing something ONLY on the factor of how much money is involved, you’ve just made the wrong decision. What you will find, is that when you follow your heart, and you lead with your intention to SERVE others, to give your best to others – EVERY SINGLE TIME. When you follow your intuition and truly GIVE your soul… then the money will come, and it will come in far greater amounts then if you simply chase money for its sake of chasing money. So, challenge yourself to live the life you want to live.