Many of us may have a crush, few of us had realized that our crush had feelings for us and started to date but there are rarely few people who stay committed to that relationship. Having a crush being in a relationship is not a tough task but being committed that one relationship is the toughest one. Things might go great at the very initial for anyone when they are in a relationship but it gets started changing with the passage of each day. As the law of relationship says if you are starting it well then it should be a happy ending. But that’s not possible in love stories, because there are certain things happen in a relationship which force you to think once again that you should finally get committed or not.
Generally those People who have a habit of partying every night are afraid of commitment and have difficulty on thinking of being with one same person all the time, these kind of people are really afraid of losing their freedom, but these are only one type of category another type is one who had once been in commitment with someone but had the worst experience of being in relationship are afraid of opening their hearts up again.
If you have feelings for the person you’re dating, but you’re not sure enough about that feeling that you might feel uneasy about committing fully to the other person. Here are several signs that you’re actually afraid of commitment. If you fit in the profile, you will have to consider whether you’re truly ready for this relationship and what exactly you’re looking for from a partner.
1. IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU NEED MORE SPACE
If you keep on thinking that you are not getting enough space for yourself in your relationship, and you are wishing for more of your personal space whenever you meet your loved one it could be one of the sign that you are not ready for the proper commitment at this stage of your life and it may also indicate that your feelings for your loved ones are not strong enough.
2. IF YOU DON’T LIKE THE IDEA OF BEING LABELED IN RELATIONSHIP.
The best check of this situation is when someone asks you what your relationship status is, what do you say? If you give some vague or sarcastic answer about having fun, just seeing someone, or you’re sort of single? If the idea of saying you’re in a relationship freak you out or if it seems like a really big step for you then You don’t necessarily have to put a label on your relationship if you and your dearest don’t want to. But, you should also understand why you don’t want your relationship labeled. Think about whether it’s because of the connection (or lack thereof) you have with bae, or whether it’s an individual thing.
3. IF YOU’RE STILL SOMEWHERE CONNECTED WITH YOUR OLD MEMORIES OR PAST AND STILL BEING HURTLED FROM PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS
It’s very much necessary for every to be first honest with ourselves before stepping into the new relationship or before being honest with someone else. If you are already being in any relationship earlier than it should be just that before entering to the new one you really over your last relationship. People often cannot easily get over to the previous relationship and enter into the new one which somewhere doesn’t allow them to enjoy any of the ones and because of which they generally hesitate to be committed with another one, and ultimately it becomes as if you’re lying to yourself. This may be another reason that You might not feel ready to commit to your current SO because you’re still holding on to some part of the past..
4. IF YOU GET OVERWHELMED WHEN YOUR PARTNER TALKS ABOUT THE FUTURE OR EVEN MAKING PLANS
If Whenever your so one talks about making plans for the future or talking about the further steps to be taken in your relationship, do you get a bit antsy? If you’re simply nodding yes without making a eye contact with him/ her then, it can point to a commitment issue. It can also mean that you’re the type of person who enjoys living in the present. Therefore, any grand commitments in the future can seem overwhelming or like a pressure for you.
5. IF YOU FOCUS ON THE NEGATIVE THINGS IN MOST SITUATIONS
If after a certain time you started finding the loopholes in your relationship and flaws, quirks, or differences in the hopes in each new date with your dearest one than Here’s another time you need to look inside yourself and consider your true feelings. Do you actually want to be in this relationship? Do you actually have feelings for your loved ones? Or, do you feel pressured? If you are committing simply because you think that’s what you’re supposed to be doing or because people are encouraging you to? Remember that you’re the totally another person in this relationship who was totally not there when you started the first step in your relationship.
6. YOU SOMETIMES LEAVE TEXTS UNANSWERED
The couple often keeps texting to each other all the time just because they love to spend the day texting their SO back and forth. But if you find it a bit ridiculous or total waste of time that sometimes you ignore the text or leave it unanswered until later so you can do your own thing then it could be another sign shows that you are still not ready for commitments in life.